
Individual
Program: 12 Weeks
Distance Learning Optional |
If
you want your son or daughter to have a:
- Jewish
Coming of Age Ceremony
-
Connection to Jewish Heritage
-
Opportunity to Celebrate with Friends and Family
- Generational
Continuity
But
you are not ready or able to commit to a time intensive Bar
or Bat Mitzvah program that requires weeks of Hebrew tutoring,
months (or even years) of religious school and countless weekends
spent in synagogue, then our Bar or Bat Yisrael ceremony may
be the right alternative for your family.
This
is an ideal program for families who like the concept
of bar or bat mitzvah, but just don't see how learning
Hebrew will help their son or daughter be better equipped
to deal with the world.
Bar Yisrael and Bat Yisrael:
- Focused
around Tikkun Olam/ Social Action project
- Opens
the door for future involvement with Judaism
- Helps
develop Jewish identity
- Includes
Independent Investigation of One Jewish topic
-
Your timeframe, your schedule
-
Appropriate for 12 -15 year olds
How
does it work?
There are three elements (details below) to the program plus
five meetings with the B'nai Mitzvah Coach and two meetings
with the rabbi (details below.) These culminate in a private
ceremony at the venue of your choice (details below.)
Three
Elements:
Part I: Independent Learning Project
As a Bar or Bat Yisrael student, you will work with the B'nai
Mitzvah Coach, to choose one area of Judaism you wish to learn
about or experience. You will devote at least 10 hours to
your studies. During your five meetings, you will discuss
what you are learning and have an opportunity to ask lots
of question. At your Bar or Bat Yisrael Ceremony, you will
teach the community about what you have learned.
Examples
of Past Projects:
- Jewish
Roots of Reggae
- Challah:
Baking Challahs from Around the World & Sharing them
at a Retirement Community
- Why
are so Many Comedians Jewish?
- Learning
the Hebrew Alphabet
- Learning
about the Student's Jewish Family Through Interviews with
Family Members
- Tour
of Jewish Boulder: Visiting Jewish Organizations in Boulder
and Learning about Them
Part
II: Tikkun Olam/ Social Action Project
You will devote ten hours to working on a Tikkun Olam / Social
Action project of your own design. During your five meetings
you will learn how this particular project illustrates a Jewish
value and discuss your experiences with the project. You will
track your progress and learning in a mini-journal so that
you will be able to share what you have learned at your Bar
or Bat Yisrael Ceremony.
Examples
of Past Projects:
- Trailwork
(Durango, CO)
- Graffiti
Removal (New York City)
- Building
Homes (New Orleans)
- Organizing
a Neighborhood Park Clean-Up (Denver, CO)
- Helping
Prepare Meals for Koko the Signing Gorilla (California)
Part
III: Sabbath Prayers
You will also memorize the basic prayers for Sabbath dinner
at home and Havdallah, the ceremony closing the Sabbath. These
are easy, enjoyable and useful prayers that will enable you
to be part of the Jewish community wherever your life takes
you. You will not need to be able to read them in Hebrew.
Putting
it all Together:
You will meet with our B'nai Mitzvah Coach five times during
the twelve weeks. The first meeting will be to explain the
program and identify your projects. The middle three meetings
will be opportunities to discuss what you are learning, ask
questions and delve more deeply into areas of interest. In
the last meeting we will put it all together and practice
delivering the speeches you have prepared to share what you
have learned with your community.
A month before your ceremony, you will have
two sessions with Rabbi Korngold to plan the ceremony (via
phone or in-person in Boulder, Colorado.)
Ceremony
When you have completed your projects, we will gather
together with family and friends. Generally, the favorite days
for ceremonies are Friday night Shabbat Service or Saturday
night Havdallah Services but because there is no Torah reading
involved, the ceremony can actually be held on any day of the
week.
Rabbi Korngold's services are beautiful, heart-felt experiences,
filled with song, prayer and relevant discussions. Together
as a community we will celebrate your connection to Judaism
and entrance into the teenage years. There will be ample opportunities
for friends, parents and family to add their blessings to the
service so that it becomes a unique expression of you!
Summary
Twelve Week Program includes:
- Five
Phone/ Skype or in Person Meetings with B'nai Mitzvah Coach
- Two
meetings with Rabbi Jamie Korngold
- One
hour a Week Tikkun Olam / Social Action Project
-
One hour a week Independent Study
- Three
Hours to Learn Hebrew Prayers
- Four
Hours to Prepare Speeches and Service
Commonly
Asked Questions:
Do
we get to personalize the ceremony?
Yes! We can include as many of your guests as you would
like. You can even write your own prayerbook, although most
families opt to use our copies of Gates of Prayer or
the Adventure Rabbi nature-based prayerbooks.
Where
are the ceremonies?
Small
ceremonies often take place as part of a morning hike, while
larger ceremonies are generally held in locations where
everyone can sit in chairs in order to minimize the impact
of large groups on the wilderness.
Our
favorite outdoor location is the Jaycee
or Wood Shelter on Flagstaff Mountain above Boulder
and a fabulous indoor venue is the
Community House in Chautauqua Park in Boulder, Colorado.
Does
it have to be outside?
As the Adventure Rabbi Program, we love hiking
or skiing ceremonies but we realize not every family can
do that.
View Outdoor Bar
Mitzvah One Minute Video >>
Or,
view photos from a recent Skiing Bat Mitzvah at Copper Mountain
>>
What
about having the ceremony outside of Colorado or up in the
Mountains?
We are happy to send one of our Rabbi's to officiate at
ceremonies outside of Boulder. Obviously it costs a bit
more, because it takes more of the Rabbi's time. Call for
price quotes 303.416.6200 ext 1
We
have family members who can't hike, but we know a ceremony
that includes hiking with the Adventure Rabbi is an amazing
and unique experience. Is there any way we can incorporate
a little hiking?
We suggest adding a hiking Friday night service led by Rabbi
Jamie Korngold and her guitar. That way even if your main
service can't be on the trail because not everyone is physically
capable of hiking, at least a subset of the group can enjoy
that amazing experience. We have found that the amazing
feeling created in the smaller group rapidly spreads to
the entire group.
Can
we also add a short hiking piece to our ceremony?
If you hold the service on the summit of Flagstaff
Mountain (Boulder, CO) we can add a little hiking at beginning
of the service that is very accessible. Those who can't
walk or be pushed in wheelchair, can drive to the service
site and they will not miss too much.
If this is an individual program, how will we meet
other people?
We encourage your family to participate in Adventure Rabbi
events throughout the year so that you can build a relationship
with Rabbi Korngold and our larger community. You will meet
an amazing group of people, eager to find a meaningful way
to experience their Judaism.
In order to facilitate this we will give your bar or bat
yisrael student a free membership to the Adventure Rabbi
Program, a $750 value.
We
also recommend reading Rabbi
Korngold's book to get a sense of who she is and how
she works.
How are parents part of this process?
We highly encourage one parent to be present for
the meetings. This serves two functions. It often puts the
student more at ease and it allows the conversation to continue
even after the session is over. We encourage you to make
this a family process.
If
you are interested in this option:
If
you have spoken to the rabbi and are ready to sign a contract,
please click
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